Things they have done—holding hands with a 31-year-old Nigerian guy named Femi, who. Fresh coffee in hand, Layla sat between her grandmothers while facing her. If she doesn't enjoy direct clitoral touch, caress around the spot. I think, generally, most men wouldn't be THAT self-indulgent enough to think a touch means boot knocking. Men too have a few pleasure points that make them go weak in their knees.